Denied and Dehumanized: When the System Says My Son Isn’t Disabled Enough

A composite image showing a government Social Security Disability Insurance document stamped “DENIED” in bold red. Below it, a letterboard with alphabet letters represents alternative communication, a medical ID bracelet labeled “EPILEPSY,” and a faint silhouette of a child holding hands with an adult. The overlayed quote reads: “He has seizures. He can’t speak. But they say he can work.”

My non-speaking autistic son Stone was denied disability benefits through SSI. Yes, you read that right. We filed the application in April 2023. In the months that followed, they requested evaluations – a psychological review, a medical evaluation. We complied with everything. We even visited the local SSI office in person, where we were told […]

Another Strong Example: Nonspeakers Can Communicate – We Just Have to Listen

A sunrise breaks through low clouds, casting a warm glow across the sky. Overlaid in white text is the quote: “It’s not just about speaking. It’s about being seen.” —Jeremy, nonspeaking autistic adult. The image evokes clarity, hope, and visibility.

Introduction In the realm of autism advocacy, stories of breakthrough communication from nonspeaking individuals are both inspiring and affirming. They challenge long-held assumptions and highlight the importance of presuming competence. A recent article in IEEE Spectrum titled “The Quest to Ensure Nonspeaking Autistic People Are Heard” brings this to the forefront through the story of […]

We Trust PROMPT. So Why Do We Question Spelling to Communicate?

A split-screen illustration showing two communication methods. On the left, a speech therapist uses PROMPT therapy by gently touching a child’s face. On the right, a nonspeaking child uses a letterboard to spell words while a communication partner looks on. Text below reads: “Both Supported. Both Valid.”

There’s a curious and frustrating paradox in the world of therapy and healthcare: many widely accepted interventions are embraced even when their mechanisms aren’t fully understood. PROMPT therapy is a perfect example. This respected speech therapy uses tactile-kinesthetic cues-touching a person’s jaw, lips, or tongue-to guide articulation. Therapists swear by it. Families see real progress. […]